Sunday, November 20, 2011 Morning Message to the Winston-Salem Church of God of Prophecy

JESUS TEACHES ABOUT DIVORCE

Introduction: When you preach through books of the Bible one of the great blessings is that, sooner or later, you will preach on every subject imaginable. But, one of the disadvantages is that, sooner or later, you will preach on every subject imaginable. So in preaching through the book of Mark we come upon this subject of divorce and remarriage.

As these verses open, the Lord Jesus is steadily moving closer to His destiny. Every step He takes brings Him one step closer to the moment He will lay down His life for His people.

(Mark 10:1-3) Then He arose from there and came to the region of Judea by the other side of the Jordan. And multitudes gathered to Him again, and as He was accustomed, He taught them again. The Pharisees came and asked Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?" testing Him. And He answered and said to them, "What did Moses command you?" (NKJV)

(Mark 10:4-6) They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to dismiss her." And Jesus answered and said to them, "Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. "But from the beginning of the creation, God 'made them male and female.' (NKJV)

(Mark 10:7-9) 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, 'and the two shall become one flesh'; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. "Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." (NKJV)

(Mark 10:10-12) In the house His disciples also asked Him again about the same matter. So He said to them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. "And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery." (NKJV)

As Jesus draws nearer to the cross, His enemies increase their attacks. Those who hate Him grow bolder and ghastlier in their attempts to discredit Jesus in the eyes of the people and of the ruling authorities.

Many of the Pharisees and the Scribes have already tried to undermine the Lord's ministry on several occasions. They now come to Him seeking His opinion on one of the most hotly debated issues of that day. They approach Him on the hot button issue of divorce. They really didn't care about the Lord's opinion, there were actually trying to catch Him in a trap.

It may seem strange to us, but divorce was even more rampant in that society than it is in ours. Some historians have noted that it was not uncommon for a Roman male to have as many as fifteen to twenty wives in his lifetime. Divorce rates among the Jewish people were not that drastic, but divorce was a real problem in that society.

It continues to be a problem in ours as well. There are over one million divorces in America each year. The human tragedy that arises out of these divorces is immeasurable. Think of it this way, when a million marriages end in divorce there are at least two million adults and several million children that are affected. Add to that the damage that divorce brings into the extended families of those folks, and the number of those impacted by divorce becomes staggering. Not a single person involved in any area of a divorce escapes totally untouched. Those who have lived through it can testify to the harsh reality of divorce and to the pain it brings into a home.

We are living in an age when nearly every family has been touched by the cold hand of divorce. When 51% of marriages in America fail, it stands to reason that divorce is a reality in most families. So, I approach a subject like this very carefully.

I realize that I am preaching to some of you who have been through divorce. You know the pain and the turmoil it brings with it. My desire is not to hurt you any more than you have already been hurt. My desire is to try and preach what Jesus said about this issue in as loving a way as possible. But I also want you to know that divorce and/or divorce and remarriage is a forgivable sin.

I realize that there are some who hold some pretty strong opinions about divorce and about the people who have been through divorce. My duty today is to preach what the Bible says about this issue in as clear a manner as is possible. That being said, I know that some will not agree with all of the things I have to say but the message I preach today does agree with our church's official position on this subject as I understand it.

When we approach a subject like this there are two tendencies:

• First, some people try to lower the biblical standard so that people will feel better about themselves and what they have been through. They want to demonstrate love and they want to see that no one gets hurt.
  
• Second, some people tend to go beyond what the Bible teaches. They want to stem the tide of divorce, and uphold the sanctity of marriage, so they take what they see as a spiritual stance on the issue.
  

However, when you take away from what the Bible says in any matter just so people will feel better about themselves then you are not "speaking the truth in love." And, when you add to what the Bible says then that also is not "speaking the truth in love." Regardless of the issue at stake, any human standard may be more lenient than the Bible or it may be stricter than the Bible, but it will never be better than the Bible.

So today, I want to tackle the issue of divorce. I want to consider this issue from heaven's perspective. I will not answer all your questions, I am sure. Neither will I please every person who hears me preach today. That is neither my goal nor my desire. I simply want to be faithful as I know how to what the Word of God says about this important issue.

Let's look into this passage that we have read from Mark, and several others that deal with this vitally important issue. I want you to see The Pharisees and Their Attack; The Lord and His Answer; and The Disciples and Their Amazement. Let's consider these thoughts as I preach on the subject: Jesus Teaches About Divorce.

I. v. 1-2 THE PHARISEES AND THEIR ATTACK

As I mentioned, this is not the first time this group of men had attacked Jesus and it will not be the last. He has already had several heated encounters with these religious people. In every encounter, Jesus overcame their arguments and put them to shame before the people.

This time they come to Him with an argument they think is unanswerable. We are told in verse 2 that they came to Him "testing" Him. This word carries the idea of "testing in a malicious sense." These men are trying to trap Jesus in a theological debate. They are trying to undermine His credibility in the eyes of the people. Verse 1 tells us that a great crowd has gathered to hear Jesus teach.

To understand the nature of their attack, we need to first understand the state of marriage in Israel in that day. Marriages in ancient Israel were not usually based on love. Men took wives for convenience. Marriage was the only lawful way for a man to satisfy his sexual appetite. When a man married a woman, he got a sexual partner, and as a bonus, he got someone to clean his house, cook his meals, wash his cloths and give birth to his children. Women were viewed as possessions that could be acquired and abandoned as the needs and desires of the husband changed.

The question the Pharisees ask is very straight forward. They ask, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?" They want to know if a man is permitted to divorce his wife based on the Law of Moses.

There were two basic schools of thought on this topic in Israel. Two rather famous rabbis had handed down their teaching on the matter and most people in Israel followed one of these two rabbis.

One of these rabbis was a man named Shammai. He taught that the only lawful reason a divorce could be granted was for adultery. The Law commanded that adulterers were to be put to death by stoning, Lev. 20:10. By the New Testament time period, however, stoning for that reason had been outlawed, and divorce became the remedy for adultery in the marriage. The teachings of Shammai were followed by a small minority of the population and the religious leaders.

The other rabbi was a man named Hillel. Hillel held a very liberal view of divorce. He taught that a man could divorce his wife for any reason at all. If she took down her hair in public; if she was seen talking to another man; if she ruined a meal by burning the food or by putting too much salt into it; if she spoke evil of her mother-in-law; even if her husband saw a woman he thought was prettier, she could be divorced. As you might imagine, this was the most popular view of divorce among the male leaders of Israel. Most of the Pharisees followed the teachings of Hillel. This is clear in Matthew's account of this same encounter in (Matthew 19:3) The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?" (NKJV)

• It is ironic that the Pharisees, who were so strict in every other area, were so liberal in this area. Most of the Pharisees married and divorced as it pleased them. Of course, this is the way of a legalist. They always find loopholes to allow the flesh to be gratified.
• Why would they use this question to attack Jesus? When you think about, it was very ingenious.
  
  • If Jesus sided with the view taught by Shammai, He would alienate many of the people who came to hear Him speak. Most of the men in His audiences would have embraced the teachings of Hillel.
    
  • If Jesus sided with the Pharisees, the people would have been offended by that move alone.
    
  • Perhaps the Pharisees were hoping that Jesus would contradict the Law of Moses and they could accuse Him based on that. He did attack their interpretation of the Law of Moses.
    
  • Of course, this confrontation took place in the jurisdiction of Herod Antipas. Remember him? He was the King who married his brother's (Phillip) wife. She was his half-niece. This marriage had been condemned by John the Baptist, Matt. 14:4. Herod would eventually execute John for his words, Matt. 14:10. It may be that the Pharisees hoped to see Jesus arrested and executed for preaching against the marriage of Herod and his wife.
    
• Whatever their motives were for coming to Jesus, these men were not interested in the truth.

That is still the way people are today. There are lots of people who could care less about the truth. They only want to justify their sins, or cling to their traditions and beliefs. In the end, it does not matter what we believe about any issue. It only matters what God says about it. Our opinions will die when we do, but the Word of God will endure forever, Psa. 119:89; 1 Pet. 1:25; Matt. 24:35.

II. v 3-9 THE LORD AND HIS ANSWER

The first thing Jesus does is to turn the tables on them, v. 3. He asks them "What did Moses command you?" In other words, Jesus asks, "What does the Word of God say about this matter?"

Jesus knows what these men believe about this issue. He knows that some of them have been married and divorced multiple times. He knows they most follow the teachings of the rabbi Hillel. He also knows that the opinions of men are irrelevant.

So, Jesus focuses the issue on the Word of God. That is always a good tactic to use when someone tries to draw you into a theological argument. Just look at them, hand them a Bible and say, "Show me!"

They answer, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and to dismiss her." In (Matthew 19:7) They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" (NKJV)

So given their response in Matthew 19:7, where the word "command" is used, these men felt like divorce was not just a right, but an obligation to be followed.

The Pharisees base their argument on Deut. 24:1-4. Most Jews interpreted this passage to teach that divorce was an obligation. However, a careful reading of these verses clearly reveals that they do not command, recommend, or even suggest divorce. These verses were given to regulate a situation that had gotten out of hand.

Men were divorcing their wives and sending them out of their homes with a "bill of divorcement". It is said that the husband had found some "uncleanness" in his wife. This word does not refer to adultery or fornication. Both of these offenses were punishable by death, Deut. 22:20-22.

The word speaks of an immodest act that falls short of the legal definition of adultery. She might have been caught flirting with other men or uncovering herself in public. Some scholars believe that it might refer to any reason the husband could think of that made him want to get rid of her.

At any rate, the husband divorces the wife and sends her away. She goes out and marries another man. This law prohibits her first husband from remarrying her if she is divorced again, or if her second husband dies.

So, rather than commanding or condoning divorce, Deut. 24:1-4 was given to control divorce, which was rampant in that society. The Pharisees and others who advocated easy divorce were guilty of misinterpreting and misapplying the Word of God.

Jesus responds to their question by reminding them that the only reason Moses gave these instructions was because of the "hardness of heart," of the people v. 5. Every divorce occurs because there is sin in the hearts of one or both of the parties involved. Regardless of the reasons for a divorce, there is always sin at the heart of it. One or both of the parties involved is guilty of some "hardness of heart" in the matter. One or both parties will not repent of their sins or forgive the other. That is why God says, "…He hates divorce…," Mal. 2:16.

In ancient Israel, divorce was out of control. Men were divorcing their wives for all kinds of frivolous reasons. All a man had to do was to say to his wife three times, "I divorce you!", and in the eyes of man, they were divorced. These women were being sent out of their homes by their husbands with no legal protection. So a "bill of divorcement" was permitted that told society that the woman was not a harlot, and that she was free to remarry.

The law Moses gave them was given to control a sinful system that arose out of man's refusal to honor God's ideal for marriage. Such a situation should never have existed in the first place, but because of the sinfulness of the human heart it did and it needed to be controlled.

In verses 6-8, Jesus reaches beyond the Law all the way to the beginning creation. The Lord reminds us that in the creation, God created a male and a female, Gen. 1:27. God's command to this first couple was for them to "be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth," Gen. 1:28.

You will notice that God made a man and a woman. He did not make a group of people that were free to configure themselves as they saw fit. It was not to be one man and several women. It was not to be two men or two women. It was to be one man and one woman, only. Any other combination was against God's original design.

Under God's divine design a man was to "cleave" to his wife. The word literally means "to be glued together".
This speaks of the strength of the bond. It was to be an indivisible bond that was to endure for a lifetime. Marriage is not something that is to be done on a whim. It is a covenant that is to be entered into only after serious thought about the consequences. In God's view, marriage is a lifetime commitment between one man and one woman for one lifetime.

That is why Jesus says what He does in verse 8. When a man and a woman come together as husband and wife, they become one flesh. The married couple should become one in their goals, their direction, their will, their emotions, their mind and their spirit. They move together through life as though they were not a couple, but as though they were a single entity.

When God wills that a marriage produces a child, that baby is the perfect emblem of their oneness. Their child is the fusing of two persons into one. Babies are a living, breathing illustration of the biblical principle of "one flesh".

Then, in verse 9, Jesus reveals God's view of marriage. Jesus tells us that every marriage is "made in heaven". Whether it is two saved people or two lost people, the union of two people in the covenant of marriage is an honorable thing in the eyes of God, Heb. 13:4.

Jesus is telling us that marriage is always the work of the Lord while divorce is always the work of man. No one has the right to destroy a marriage. What God has glued together is not to be ripped apart by man!

Divorce and remarriage are never commanded or commended in the Word of God. Both were merely permitted as a gracious concession to the sinfulness of man. We will talk more about the biblical grounds for divorce in the message this evening. Yes, there are biblical grounds for divorce.

For now, it cannot be emphasized too strongly that God's ideal for marriage is one man and one woman for one life time. No matter what your reasons were for getting married, your marriage was the creation of God. It is not your place to tear that bond apart. It is your place to make your marriage work and to make it last a life time. In our day, marriage has become a disposable commodity. People get married on a whim and divorced at their convenience. That is not God's will for marriage. God's desire is that every marriage last a lifetime.

Conclusion Part 1: This is a good place to stop our study in this message. Lord willing, we will come back this evening and finish this message. What can we take away with us as we depart? There are a few final thoughts I will leave with you.

• If you are married and your marriage is strong, you should give thanks to God and pray for God's grace. The enemy would like to destroy your marriage and mine but God is on the side of your marriage. You should praise Him for blessing your home and you should ask Him to help you divorce proof your marriage. There are plenty of families that have been shattered by divorce, and many thought it could never happen to them. No home, no family, and no person are above it happening to them.
  
• If you are struggling in your marriage know that God is on the side of marriage and He can provide the needed grace to help your marriage thrive.
  
• If you are divorced, or if you are divorced and remarried, and you have repented of your sins, then you need to know that you are not a second-class believer. I know there are some people who treat the victims of divorce as though they had the plague. I know that some men have placed a lot of restrictions on what you can and cannot do in the church. I also know that most of those restrictions are just legalism and have no basis in scripture. If you have been divorced, you should also pray to the Lord. You need to ask Him to help you be effective in whatever marital state you find yourself today.
  
• If you have been guilty of judging the victims of divorce, you need to seek His forgiveness. It is easier for a person to be forgiven of murder in some churches than it is for a person to be accepted after they have been divorced. Something is wrong with that picture.
  
• If you are not saved, you need to know that Jesus Christ will save your soul and forgive your sins if you will come to Him and ask Him. If you have never received Christ into your heart, I invite you to do that today.

III. v. 10-12 THE DISCIPLES AND THEIR AMAZEMENT

In these verses, the scene shifts. The Pharisees did not get what they came after. They have once again been embarrassed by Jesus and they leave.

When Jesus is alone with His disciples, His men are concerned about the things they have heard Jesus say. They want to know more. In truth, they are astonished! Divorce was so common in that day that nobody thought anything about people divorcing and remarrying. What they have heard Jesus say about marriage has alerted them that God has a higher view of marriage than what they have been taught and shown by society.

Jesus wants everyone to know that marriage is to be a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman. Marriage is more than just so you can have a sexual partner. In the context of marriage, sexual needs will be, and should be, met, 1 Cor. 7:2-5. If the Lord wills it to be so, children will be born. Above all, that marriage relationship is a living, breathing example of Christ's relationship with His Bride, the church, Eph. 5:21-33. Marriages should be based on mutual love and submission, and like Christ's relationship with His church, they should last until death.

That is God's ideal for marriage, but sadly, many marriages simply do not last. Divorces take place. Lives and dreams are shattered. Families are driven apart. Hatred, bitterness and vindictiveness replace love, affection and mutual concern. What happens in the aftermath of divorce? That is what I want to focus on for the rest of this message.

In verses 11-12, Jesus makes a straightforward statement about divorce. He says when either a man or a woman divorces their mate and marries another person; they are guilty of adultery in the eyes of the Lord.

That is as far as some people go with this matter of divorce and remarriage. Some people have the opinion that there are no biblical grounds for divorce, and that there is no room for remarriage. The people who hold this view look on all remarried people as adulterers.

Is that what the Bible teaches? If Mark was all we had, then we would have to conclude that, yes, it is. However, Mark's Gospel is not all we have. So, with that in mind I want to make call your attention to several passages of Scripture that present a full treatment of this matter of divorce and remarriage.

Malachi 2:16 – We have already considered this passage, and it clearly teaches us that God hates divorce. Divorce violates God's original ideal of marriage and it destroys the image of Christ's eternal union with His church.

While God hates divorce, He Himself is divorced. In Isa 50:1, God is lamenting the spiritual adulteries of Israel. Yet, God is so patient and loving that He refuses to divorce Israel and put her away. However, In Jer. 3:8, God's patience with Israel's idolatry has reached its limit. God divorces Israel and sends her away into exile and captivity.

(Jeremiah 3:8) "Then I saw that for all the causes for which backsliding Israel had committed adultery, I had put her away and given her a certificate of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah did not fear, but went and played the harlot also. (NKJV)

There is coming a day when God will restore His relationship with His people Israel. He has not taken another wife, and the Jews, for their part, have never had a serious problem with idolatry since that day. They are divorced today, but they will be reunited in the future.

If God is divorced, then surely He cannot condemn all divorces and all divorcees. We are about to see that Jesus handed down a new law regarding marriage and divorce.

Matthew 19:9 – Jesus reaffirms what He said in Mark, but adds what is called "the exception clause". It is also mentioned in Matt. 5:32. Jesus says, (Matthew 19:9) "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery." (NKJV)

The word "sexual immorality" translates the word "porneia". It gives us our words "pornography and pornographic." In that day, that word referred to any and every type of sexual perversion. Its meaning encompasses every kind of illicit sexual sin including, but not limited to, adultery, homosexuality, lesbianism, pedophilia, and bestiality.

It seems clear that Jesus allows for divorce in cases of unrepentant sexual sin. This does not mean that a person is commanded to divorce their spouse for committing adultery. It does open the door for divorce in cases where one of the marriage partners lives a lifestyle of open, unrepentant sexual sin.

Divorce, even in this kind of extreme situation, should always be the last resort. Reconciliation, repentance and restoration should all come first.

It seems clear to me that in cases like the one I have just mentioned, the innocent party is free to remarry. They are not guilty of adultery. They are free in the eyes of the Lord!

To be fair, many wise Bible scholars teach that "fornication" refers to a man who finds the bride he has married is not a virgin. The law in ancient Israel imposed the death penalty in such cases, Lev. 20:10;
Deut. 22:20-21. They take this position because Matthew was written to a largely Jewish audience. Still, the word used covers much more territory than just sex before marriage.

In the Old Testament period the Law did not make provision for divorce and remarriage in cases of adultery. Adultery was punished by stoning the adulterers to death, Deut. 22:22. Adultery brought about the end of a marriage by death, and the innocent party was free to remarry. It seems clear that Jesus is teaching us that marital unfaithfulness is like a death. It breaks the one-flesh covenant and can spell the end of a marriage.

(1 Corinthians 7:10-11 NKJV)Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.

(1 Corinthians 7:12-14) But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. (NKJV)

(1 Corinthians 7:15-16) But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? (NKJV)

• 1 Corinthians 7:10-16 – This is a complex passage that requires far more time than I am able to give it today. I am going to move through these verses very quickly.
  
  • v. 10 – People who are married should stay in that condition. Divorce is not an option.
    
  • v. 11 – If you are saved and you get a divorce, you are not to remarry. The only exception is the one I mentioned from Matt. 19:9 and one I will share in a moment.
    
  • v. 12-14 – These verses deal with a couple consisting of one saved partner and one unsaved partner. Apparently, one of them was saved after marriage. In this case, if the non-believer wants to remain in the marriage, the believer should not divorce their mate.

Staying together allows the unbelievers in the home to enjoy the blessings of God through the life of the believer. Because they are exposed to a Christian, the unbelievers in the home are "sanctified". This does not mean that they are saved, but it does mean that they are brought into contact with the things of God, which would not be the case if they were removed from the home.

• v. 15 – If the unbeliever does not want to live with a Christian and departs, the believer is not "under bondage". In other words, the innocent party who was deserted by an unbelieving spouse is free to remarry. It is assumed that the partner who left the marriage will eventually take up with another partner, thus bringing them under the "exception clause" of Matt. 19:9.
  
• That is a lot to take in today. Let me just make a couple of clear statements that need to be heard.
  
  • God has never intended and never intends for anyone to get a divorce. God always has and always will hate divorce.
    
  • A Christian couple should never divorce—with the help of the Lord, they should reconcile their differences. No sin is too great to be conquered if both partners are walking in love one toward the other!
    
  • Divorce should be eliminated from the Christian vocabulary. There are only two cases where it is even an option! In both of those cases, unrepentant adultery and desertion by an unbeliever, it is always the last resort.
    
  • Divorce is never commanded in any situation. Even in cases of adultery, no one is ordered to get a divorce. Reconciliation should always be the first option. If one partner falls into sin and then repents and seeks forgiveness and reconciliation, then there is to be no divorce. Both partners are under the obligation of doing everything in their power to ensure the success of their marriage. I realize that this is a lot to ask of the innocent partner, but marriage is an illustration of the Lord's love for us and He doesn't throw us away when we fall! Remember the Lord's parable in Matt. 18:23-25. We are to forgive and by the Lord's help and through His grace, the marriage can be saved!
    
  • Divorce is always the result of sin, in one of the marriage partners or both, but it is a sin no greater than any other sin and can be fully forgiven by the Lord.
    
  • Those who have been through a divorce and have repented are not second class citizens in the church and should never be treated as such. If God forgives, then His people must forgive as well!
    
  • If you are divorced for some reason other than the two reasons allowed in the Word of God, and you have remarried, you have committed adultery. You have sinned, and if you haven't already, you simply need to ask God to forgive you.
    
• Let me make a few important observations right here.
  
  • What are divorced people supposed to do? I suppose the answer to that question depends. It depends on why you were divorced.
    
  • If you are divorced from a spouse because they were living a lifestyle of adultery, or if you were abandoned by an unbelieving mate for another person, you are free to remarry as the Lord leads.
    
  • If you are divorced for any other reason and have remarried, you need to ask for forgiveness, if you haven't done so already. If you have repented God has forgiven you and you should live the rest of your days in your present marriage to the glory of God.

Now, having said that, I do not believe the Lord would have a woman continue to live in a situation where her live is threatened. Neither do I believe that she should keep her children in such an environment. There are situations where the physical and emotional abuse is so strong that the couple cannot continue to live under the same roof.

Please note that most divorces today stem from what are termed "irreconcilable differences." There should be no such thing as "irreconcilable differences" between Christians! The Bible forbids remarriage in these cases. In those cases where a divorce is obtained and granted then verse 11 tells us the Lord's mind in the matter.

Those who are divorced, and have not remarried, for non-biblical reasons have two possible options: 1.) Be reconciled to their first mate if they have not remarried, or 2.) Remain unmarried. That may sound narrow-minded and strict, but that is the Word of God and not the opinion of this preacher!

What if they remarry anyway? According to the word of God in Mark 10:2-12 and in Luke 16:18 they are guilty of adultery. I do not believe that the Bible teaches that it is possible to live in a constant state of adultery. It is the act of the new marriage and the consummation of it that constitutes the adultery. If the couple or individual repents and comes to God then God forgives the act of adultery and recognizes the current marriage.

Now, some teach people that they should leave a second or third marriage and return to their first spouse. That is a clear contradiction of Deut. 24:1-4. Doing that would multiply the tragedy and reach of divorce. If you are in a second, third, or whatever number of marriage, your duty is to do the best you can to live the rest of your life for the Lord.

Many good Christian people believe that divorce is never allowed and that remarriage is also out of the question. I respect that point of view. I want you to know that I have agonized over this thing and have reached my position not because of what some friend preaches, or because of what I was taught in school, or to try and fit in with any group of men. I reached this position because I think it is what the Bible clearly and plainly says. However, if you feel differently than I do, then that is fine! You have to take your stand on the issue and then face God with the decisions you make in regard to it.

Conclusion Part 2: I want you folks to know that I have approach this subject with great care. I do fear hurting those who have already suffered the scars of divorce in their lives and I encourage you to bring your pain to the Lord today, 1 Pet. 5:7; Matt. 11:28.

Here is the invitation today.

• If you were divorced for a non-biblical reason and are remarried today, and you have never dealt with that sin, come do that today.
  
• If you have dealt with the sin, but you still carry guilt because of the things others have said and done, come to the Lord today and commit yourself to live for Him to the best of your ability for the rest of your life.
  
• If you are guilty of judging other for their marital status, you need to make that right with the Lord today.
  
• If you are in a good marriage, you need to thank the Lord for that and pray His protection upon your home.
  
• If you are having trouble or see potential trouble on the horizon of your marriage, today would be a great day to take the necessary steps to save your home.
  
• If you are married to a lost spouse, you need to continue to pray for their salvation.
  
• If you are lost, you need to come be saved today.